Thursday, April 27, 2006

Can't win for losing

Okay the band-aid is still on, but I am more determined than ever to get it off. I met indian Girl at the bar last night adn we barely spoke for the first hour. We were playing pool, so it wasn't like we were just sitting and staring at each other. But we really didn't have anything to say. She had 3 drinks and was playing pool with the door man before I got there. I needed at least three drinks to relax and loosen up and start talking. What did she want to talk about?

"I'm saving up to take us to Vegas" she says. I think I did a good job at hiding my disbelief, but maybe she was just too drunk to notice.

In the can't win for losing category......We were at the bar that I took Red to on Monday. And guess what? Same bartender. So what you say? Red and I were making out half the time we were there. Now the bartender was as drunk as we were on Monday so maybe she truly didn't recognize me, or maybe she didn't think it was her place to say anything but she was pretty friendly with Indian Girl. Part of me wishes she would have said something to Indian Girl. Now Indian Girl knows I am dating other people and has known from the get go. But I thought that if she would hear about it she would get upset, sulk, get super quiet, which would lead to the what' wrong conversation, which would lead to a discussion on how I am not able to fufill her needs and that she should move on. No such luck.

Then to drive me crazy she got even drunker and asked me every 3 min during whatever story she just couldn't stop telling, if I wanted to go to Vegas with her and didn't that sound like fun.



Shasta MacNasty said...

Aww, boo.

I'm afraid it's time for you to man-up and just handle the situation. Why let it drag on? It's taking more energy to avoid it than to face it.

I know it won't feel good to break up with someone, but it's not like being in limbo feels good either, it's like your doing anyone any favors here. :)

Gah...good luck with that man...

:::going back to read who this "red" person is.:::

Whatsername said...

shittyshitshit! Dave..she's trying to trap you!!!!!!

seriously, dude...tell her on the phone or SOMEthing.

MrScribbler said...

*nods head at whatser's comment*

BDraggs said...


David said...

I know better than to go to Vegas with her.