Sunday, April 30, 2006

What can I say?

Indian Girl made it over 48 hours without calling but then leaves this
3:52 message. Yeah, it's long but worth it. Grab some popcorn, or
better yet a beer, and have a seat and hang on for the ride.

I think she getting the point, but somehow makes me feel even more guilty.


Shasta MacNasty said...

[rum punch]You're both adults. Why play games? And since I'm asking questions, could you please point me to the link where you explain why everyone here thinks this chick is batshit crazy? Because I'm late to the game and I'm obviously missing something.

Anyway, it's clear to me that you are begging for unsolicated advice from strangers...

...don't look at me like that.

Let's just go with idea that she's not batshit crazy. She's pretty much called you out. She's asking for some clarification. "I just want to know where I stand..." And the part about being there for you, and you not calling her at all? Ouch. By continuing to keep quiet and not put this whole thing to bed (so to speak) could put yourself squarely in the role of asshat (a distant cousin of fucktard). [/rum punch]

Maybe now is the time to just talk with her about how you're feeling. Like I started out saying, you're both adults. Breaking up is unpleasant, but you guys will both move on.

Whatsername said...

this is the link to the crazy message.

Not TOO too crazy, I guess...but that's all up to the person.

daniel said...

wow.. she is completely smitten with you.

It often amazes me when men and women really don't pick up on the fact that the lack of returned calls means that perhaps it's not the most mutual of feelings.

Maybe we cling onto hope too much. Either way, I guess it needs to be stated in clear and no uncertain terms that it's a no-go for you... before the stalking begins.

*re re re re*

(yes. that was supposed to be horror music).

Shasta MacNasty said...

Sounds like somebody that really, really liked the sex. :) Yeah, I'd be concerned and cautious that maybe this chick moving a little too fast. But "crazy?" Nnnno.

Again, they're both adults. In the last call she pretty much put the cards on the table. That sounds more level-headed than crazy to me.

And to Daniel: I figure if you've been having sex with someone, if that someone was willing to give you money to get your car out of tow, you could do better than just ignoring her until she goes away if you're not interested in her. I just think at that point, someone shouldn't have to settle for being ignored as proper communication, you know? I do agree with you that the two of them need to have a chit chat. Simply because it's the right thing to do.